Your Journey Starts with Five Promises
The Dating With Integrity promises
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Deliberate Dating.
TrulyUs requires verified identity and accountable participation. Dating, built on trust and accountability.
Real Connections for Real People.
Built on Accountability.
By removing anonymous and performative interaction patterns, TrulyUs operates as a governed environment for people who approach connection with seriousness and intent. Participation is not optimized for engagement or entertainment, but for clarity, safety, and mutual respect.
TrulyUs exists to facilitate relationships grounded in verified trust – not attention, performance, or volume.
How Deliberate Dating Works
Step 01
Start your journey with the five Dating With Integrity promises.
Step 01
Start your journey with the five Dating With Integrity promises.
Step 02
Verify Your Identity
Step 03
Get your Dating With Integrity Passport.
Step 04
Mutual Interest. Start a Conversation.
Demos
Short walkthroughs to understand the experience
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Passport Video Tour
Watch a Dating With Integrity passport being created
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Dating Platform Video Tour
From hello to match - 60 second tour
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Yes.
An ID-Verified Passport is required before joining the dating platform. This protects the community and its members and ensures you know exactly who you're speaking with.
An ID-Verified Passport signals more than identity — it reflects a commitment to dating with integrity.
An Unverified Passport reflects the same personal commitment to integrity but does not include ID verification and does not grant access to the dating platform.
Only if you choose.
You may share your passport number or QR code with someone. They cannot access your Passport without that information.
Think of it as a credential of integrity — portable, but always under your control.
When you create a Passport, you commit to five promises. They are not about perfection. Everyone misses signals, makes mistakes, or falls short at times. They are about intention and accountability. By agreeing to them, you are saying: I will act with integrity and take responsibility for my missteps. These promises form the ethical foundation of TrulyUs:
- Be truthful about who you are
- Be clear about what you're looking for
- Respect the dignity of others
- Honor boundaries
- Exit connections responsibly and gracefully
Creating an Unverified Passport is free.
An ID-Verified Passport requires a one-time $5 verification fee (credited toward your first month's subscription to the dating platform, should you decide to join).
Access to the dating platform is $10 per month.
There are:
- No premium tiers
- No pay-to-prioritize features
- No in-app purchases
- No line-jumping
Everyone has the same experience.
Your data is never sold, traded, or shared.
It is used only to operate the platform and maintain safety.
For ID verification, we use Veriff, a secure third-party provider. TrulyUs does not store your government ID images — only confirmation of verification status.
Proceed to Participation Requirements
Dating platform participation requires agreement to the Five Integrity Promises and verified identity.
Pricing
Unverified Passport
No Cost
Verified Passport
$5 One-Time
Verification fee is credited toward your first month if you subscribe to the dating platform.
Dating Platform
$10 / Month
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make dating worth your time.
TrulyUs Dispatch
A newsletter of status, changes, and observations from the dating platform
TrulyUs Mobile App
Manage your passport, preferences, chats, and account from your phone.
